Building Better Marriages Podcast
”Building Better Marriages: the I do’s and I don’ts of everyday life” Here, we’re diving deep into the heart of relationships, addressing the many feelings, emotions, and core fears that impact the very essence of your relationship. We’re talking about stronger, Christ-centered marriages. In this safe space, we recognize that the problem is the problem, not your identity. The challenges that you are facing are real, entangling your faith with fears. But fear not, for we’ll navigate these waters with Holy Spirit discernment, allowing faith to transform fear into trust. Join us as we explore the ’I do’ and ’I don’t’ moments in everyday life, weaving Christ-centered wisdom with the Holy Spirit’s direction into the fabric of your marriage. It’s not just a conversation; it’s a journey of building better marriages now.
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Are the holidays feeling more hectic than holy?
I share a heartfelt guide to finding peace this holiday season in this episode.
Grab your latte, warm up your tea, and find a cozy spot or set your pace to discover practical, faith-based tips for reducing stress, simplifying your schedule, and focusing on what truly matters: celebrating Christ, strengthening family bonds, and creating meaningful memories.
Whether you’re overwhelmed by busyness or longing for a deeper connection this season, this episode will inspire you to embrace God’s peace and make this holiday your most joyful yet. Tune in for encouragement, strategies, and a fresh perspective on keeping Christ at the center of it all.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical tools for holiday stress relief, faith-based tips for simplifying the holidays, and a renewed focus on creating a Christ-centered Christmas. Together, we’ll explore how to reduce holiday overwhelm, strengthen family bonds, and embrace a peaceful holiday season filled with joy and meaningful moments. Don’t miss this chance to find peace during the holidays and celebrate the true reason for the season!
Be good to yourself this season with a gift from me and a gift you can give yourself!
"Advent Activity Calendar": Start this Advent season with purpose and joy! Download our free Advent Activity Calendar, designed with meaningful, Christ-centered activities for you and your family to enjoy each day of December. Let’s celebrate together with daily moments that bring us closer to Jesus. DOWNLOAD HERE
"The Road to Bethlehem An Advent Journey": "Make this Advent season truly special with The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey. This book is filled with daily reflections, prayers, and stories to help you focus on the true meaning of Christmas. Whether you read alone or with family, each page will bring you closer to Christ during this season of anticipation. Don’t wait – Click here to order your copy today and journey with us to Bethlehem!"
If you enjoyed today’s episode, I’d be so grateful if you’d take a moment to like, share, and review the podcast. Your support helps others find encouragement and draw closer to God’s love and peace. Let’s spread the word together!
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Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
In this episode of Building Better Marriages, join Dr. Deborah as we dive into the heart of Thanksgiving, discovering the power of gratitude in everyday life. Together, we’ll explore simple yet impactful ways to embrace a daily gratitude practice that strengthens faith, deepens family bonds, and builds a stronger marriage.
Learn how choosing gratitude can transform your outlook, bring peace to your home, and draw you closer to God’s love.
This Thanksgiving, let’s go beyond the holiday and make gratitude a lasting part of our lives. Tune in for practical tips, scriptural encouragement, and inspiration to cultivate a heart of thanksgiving in your marriage and family life.
Start this Advent season with purpose and joy! Download our free Advent Activity Calendar, designed with meaningful, Christ-centered activities for you and your family to enjoy each day of December. Let's celebrate together with daily moments that bring us closer to Jesus. Click Here For Your Copy
Make this Advent season truly special with "The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey."This book is filled with daily reflections, prayers, and stories to help you focus on the true meaning of Christmas. Whether you read alone or with family, each page will bring you closer to Christ during this season of anticipation. Don't wait – order your copy today and journey with us to Bethlehem!
If you enjoyed today's episode, I'd be so grateful if you took a moment to like, share, and review the podcast. Your support helps others find encouragement and draw closer to God's love and peace. Let's spread the word together!"
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
In today’s episode of Heart to Heart with Dr. Deborah, we discuss how Christian couples can navigate Election Day with faith, prayer, and unity. As believers, Election Day can stir up anxiety and division, but God calls us to walk through these moments together in love and trust. Tune in as I share tips on how to pray with your spouse, choose unity over division, and trust God’s sovereignty, regardless of the political outcome.
PLUS, don’t miss out on my exclusive Black Friday offer! Starting this Black Friday, you can get my new book The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey, a beautiful calendar, and for a limited time only, an exclusive fillable online journal that goes perfectly with the book. It’s the perfect way to reflect and prepare your heart for the Advent season. Be sure to check it out!
Listen now and be encouraged as you walk through Election Day united in faith!
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
In this episode, "Balance Care for Aging Parents While Keeping Your Marriage Strong," we tackle the delicate balance of caring for aging parents while maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered marriage. As life’s responsibilities increase, it can feel overwhelming to juggle both family caregiving and nurturing your relationship. We’ll explore practical ways to manage these roles with grace, communicate openly with your spouse, and rely on God’s strength to guide you through this season.
If you're navigating this balancing act, tune in for encouragement, helpful tips, and faith-filled insights. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review to help others discover this supportive message!
Promo:Advent Activity Calendar – A Journey of Reflection and Joy!
Make this Advent season meaningful with our Advent Activity Calendar! Each day brings a simple, faith-filled activity that helps you reflect on the themes of hope, peace, joy, and love as you prepare your heart for Christmas. From acts of kindness to family-friendly fun, these activities are designed to bring you closer to Christ and your loved ones.
Download your FREE calendar today and start a joyful, purposeful journey to Bethlehem!
Exciting News!
I’m thrilled to announce the release of my newest devotional, "The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey."
Advent is a time to slow down, reflect, and truly prepare our hearts for the celebration of Christ’s birth. This devotional is designed to guide you through that journey with daily reflections, scripture readings, prayers, and even a festive recipe to bring joy to your home each day.
Whether you walk this path on your own or with loved ones, "The Road to Bethlehem" will help you experience the deeper meaning of Advent, focusing on the themes of hope, peace, joy, and love.
Ready to start your journey to Bethlehem?Grab your COPY today and make this Advent season truly unforgettable!
Tuesday Oct 22, 2024
Tuesday Oct 22, 2024
Let's explore the journey of grief and how to find comfort and restoration through God’s love. Whether you're grieving the loss of a loved one, a relationship, or a dream, this episode offers encouragement and practical steps to help you heal. With a focus on God’s promises, we’ll discuss how to embrace your emotions, lean on your faith, and rediscover purpose even in the midst of pain.
This episode is for you if you’re seeking hope and healing after loss. Be sure to listen, like, subscribe, and leave a review to share this message of comfort with others.
Promo: Also, don’t forget to check out my new "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal," which is now available on Amazon! This 31-day guide is designed to help you and your spouse grow closer to God and each other through the power of prayer. AMAZONTo grab your free checklist, whether you have the Prayer Journal or not, CLICK HERE FOR CHECKLIST.
If this episode encouraged you, please like, subscribe, and leave a review. Your support helps others find this message of hope and faith!
Tuesday Oct 15, 2024
Tuesday Oct 15, 2024
In this episode, "Balancing Leadership and Love," Dr Deborah discusses how to lead in life and love, exploring the challenges of being a leader at work while maintaining a thriving, Christ-centered marriage at home.
Finding balance is key, whether juggling professional responsibilities or nurturing your relationship. We’ll discuss practical strategies for leading with love in both areas, building strong communication, and relying on God’s wisdom to manage the demands of leadership and marriage.
If you want to strengthen your marriage through faith and intentional prayer, "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal" is the perfect tool to guide you. This 31-day journey offers daily scripture reflections and prompts designed to help you and your spouse connect more deeply with God and each other. Whether you're seeking to improve communication, reignite intimacy, or grow together spiritually, this journal will help you build a Christ-centered marriage rooted in love and prayer.
Grab your copy here on Amazon and start transforming your relationship one prayer at a time!
Grab your free "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal" Checklist here! It is a valuable tool with or without the Prayer Journal!
If you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful, please don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review! Your feedback helps other couples like you discover this content and take the next step toward a stronger, faith-filled marriage. Every like, share, and review helps spread love, faith, and prayer to those who need it most!
Until next time- be blessed and be the change you want to see! xoxo
Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
In this episode, "When Life Changes: Navigating Transitions and Finding Peace," we dive into how to handle life's unexpected changes with grace and faith. Whether you're facing a career shift, family transitions, or personal challenges, this episode will guide you through practical steps to trust God’s plan and find peace in the midst of uncertainty. We explore the power of leaning into God’s promises and seeking His strength during life’s most difficult seasons.
Also, don’t forget to check out my new "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal" now available on Amazon! This 31-day guide is designed to help you and your spouse grow closer to God and each other through the power of prayer.
If this episode encouraged you, make sure to like, subscribe, and leave a review. Your support helps others find this message of hope and faith!
Tuesday Oct 01, 2024
Tuesday Oct 01, 2024
In this episode, "Embracing Your Authentic Self: How Authenticity Fuels Personal Growth," we explore what it truly means to live authentically and how embracing your God-given identity can lead to deeper connections, personal growth, and transformation in your relationships.
We'll discuss 3 key concepts on how to let go of expectations, align your life with God’s truth, and become a catalyst for change in your family and marriage.
What is authenticity?
Authenticity is the quality of being genuine, true, and honest about who you are, without pretending to be something you're not. It involves living in alignment with your core values, beliefs, and personality, embracing both strengths and weaknesses.
In a Christian context, authenticity also means reflecting the person God created you to be, living in truth according to His Word, rather than conforming to societal pressures or expectations. It's about being real, vulnerable, and true to yourself and to God in all aspects of life.
When we know who we are in Christ, we are grounded in an unshakable identity that cannot be altered by the opinions or expectations of others. Our worth and value come from God, not from the world's standards or the roles people expect us to fill.
This knowledge empowers us to live freely and authentically, without feeling the need to fit into someone else’s box or mold. When our identity is rooted in Christ, we are no longer held captive by others’ definitions of who we should be—we are secure in who God says we are, allowing us to live with confidence, purpose, and freedom.
I’m also excited to share that my new book, "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal: 31 Days of Scriptural Reflections and Guide to Deepening Your Connection," is now available on Amazon!
Alongside the book, I’ve created a special "A Better Marriage" Checklist designed to help you apply the principles of authenticity and prayer to your daily life. Listen in to find out how you can start this journey of embracing authenticity and transforming your relationships today.
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Tuesday Sep 24, 2024
Tuesday Sep 24, 2024
Are you facing an uncertain season in life, where the path ahead seems unclear? It’s natural to want control, but God invites us to let go and trust His promises, even in the unknown. In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares how to release your need for control and lean into God’s perfect plan, reminding you that His promises never fail, even when the future feels uncertain. You’ll learn practical ways to build your faith in challenging times and discover the peace that comes from surrendering to His will.
What you’ll walk away with:
A deeper understanding of surrendering control and trusting God in uncertain seasons.
Practical tools for leaning into God’s promises and finding peace, even when the future is unclear.
A faith-based approach to overcoming fear and anxiety in times of uncertainty.
Encouragement to build a stronger connection with your spouse through prayer, using "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal.
As you lean into trusting God more, consider strengthening your marriage through prayer with
"A Better Marriage Prayer Journal: 31 Days of Scriptural Reflections and Guide to Deepening Your Connection, available on Amazon."
This prayer journal will guide you and your spouse on a spiritual journey that deepens your connection to each other and God.
If today’s message resonated with you, please like and subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode filled with encouragement, faith-building tips, and God’s truth for your life. Thank you!
God’s plans for you are always greater than your own. When you let go of control, you make room for His promises to unfold in ways you could never imagine!!
Tuesday Sep 17, 2024
Tuesday Sep 17, 2024
Are you in a season of waiting, feeling like life is on hold and you’re not sure what’s next?
Whether you’re waiting for a breakthrough in your marriage, clarity in your career, or answers to deep prayers, it’s easy to feel frustrated and disheartened when things don’t move as quickly as you’d like.
The truth is that waiting can be one of the most challenging experiences we face—but it’s also one of the most powerful times for spiritual growth.
In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the often-overlooked blessings of waiting and how to navigate these periods with faith and trust in God’s perfect timing. Through biblical wisdom and practical advice, you’ll discover how to shift your perspective from impatience to peace, from doubt to trust.
Dr. Deborah will guide you through the key steps to staying spiritually strong when life feels stalled, including deepening your connection with God, finding purpose in the pause, and holding on to hope, even when answers seem far away.
This episode is not just about surviving the wait—it’s about thriving in it, knowing that God’s plan for your life is unfolding exactly as it should.
Tune in to learn how to embrace the waiting, trust in God’s plan, and discover the peace that comes from surrendering control to Him. Whether you’re in a season of waiting now or want to be better prepared for the future, this episode will equip you with the spiritual tools you need to move forward with confidence and faith.
Key Takeaways:
How to trust God’s timing when life feels stagnant
Practical ways to find peace and purpose in the waiting
Encouragement to see waiting as a season of growth and preparation
Don’t let the waiting wear you down—let it build you up. Listen now and learn to trust God’s plan, even when life feels stalled.
My new book, "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal: 31 Days of Scriptural Reflections and Guide to Deepening Your Connection," is designed to help you and your spouse strengthen your marriage through the power of prayer. Over 31 days, you’ll explore scriptures encouraging meaningful conversations, reflection, and prayer, drawing you closer to each other and God. Whether you're looking to rekindle your bond or build a stronger foundation, this journal offers practical guidance to deepen your connection spiritually. Invest in your marriage today and experience the transformative impact of prayer in your relationship.
Bonus! Download the FREE Checklist:
To help you make the most of your journal experience, I’ve also created A Better Marriage Prayer Journal Checklist! This free guide supports you as you work through the journal, offering practical tips, reminders, and prompts.
In the checklist, you’ll find:Preparation tips to create a peaceful journaling spaceDaily Routine Guide to keep you consistent in your prayer time
You can use the checklist with the journal or on its own as a daily reminder to stay connected with God and your spouse.
Click here to get your free checklist.
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