Building Better Marriages Podcast

056 God's Blueprint For Love - What the Bible Really Says

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships.
You’ll learn:
How to recognize real, God-honoring love
Why feelings fade, but commitment lasts
How to apply 1 Corinthians 13 to your daily life and marriage
The difference between worldly love and biblical love
How to pray for and pursue a relationship that reflects Christ
This episode is for the woman who wants more than just surface-level connection. She wants a relationship built on truth, trust, and God’s design for love.
Be sure to grab the free Biblical Love Checklist linked in the show notes to take this message even deeper.

055 Diving into the Deep End of Commitment

Why are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love.
If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His heart, this episode is for you.
Resources Mentioned:
God’s Design for Marriage – A biblical guide to building a love that lasts
A Better Marriage Prayer Journal – 31 days to deepen your connection through Scripture and prayer
Ready to go deeper?Click here to schedule a free discovery chat with Dr. Deborah. She would love to walk alongside you on your journey.
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Before I go here’s
A Prayer for You
Heavenly Father,Thank You for the one reading these words right now. You see their heart, their hopes, and even their hesitations when it comes to love and commitment. Remind them that Your design for marriage is good, safe, and rooted in truth. Replace their fear with faith, their wounds with healing, and their doubts with Your peace.
Give them courage to take the next step—whether it’s starting again, praying together, or reaching out for guidance. Wrap them in Your love today and show them that with You at the center, all things are possible.
In Jesus’ name,Amen.

054 The Five Foundations Of An Unshakeable Marriage

What makes a marriage truly thrive?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah dives into the five essential foundations of an unshakeable marriage—faith, love, trust, communication, and commitment.
She unpacks how these biblical principles create a strong, lasting relationship and share practical ways to build (or rebuild) them in your marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into your journey, or preparing for marriage, this episode will give you the tools to strengthen your relationship and align it with God's design.
Grab your latte, reheat your tea or start to set the pace as you tune in for encouragement, wisdom, and real-life applications to help your marriage flourish!
🔹 Scripture Focus🔹 Action Steps to Strengthen Your Marriage🔹 Encouragement for Couples at Any Stage
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Spring Ahead - Moving Forward in Faith Together

Spring is here—a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and new growth. Just like we set our clocks ahead to embrace longer days, our marriages also need refreshing and intentional change moments. Are you making the necessary adjustments in your relationship to move forward in faith and love?
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares a personal story of how God shifted her path from growing flowers to growing marriages, reminding us that just like gardens need tending, so do our relationships.
Tune in to learn:How to clear out the weeds—old habits, past hurts, and things holding you back.Why trusting God's timing is key for renewal in marriage.Actionable steps to spring ahead together in faith and love.
Ready to refresh your marriage this season? Start your journey with my Better Marriage Prayer Journal: 31 Days of Scriptural Reflections and a Guide to Deepening Your Connection. Grab your copy now on Amazon!
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052 God is in the Testing - Trusting Him to Show the Way

Life doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes, we step out in faith, pour our hearts into something, and the response isn’t what we expected. In those moments, doubt creeps in, and we wonder if we misheard God.
But what if the testing is part of His plan?
What if He’s refining us, redirecting us, and preparing us for something greater?
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares her own experience of stepping out in faith, facing unexpected challenges, and learning to trust that God is in the testing. Through scripture, personal reflection, and encouragement, she reminds us that when we keep our hearts open, God will show the way—often in ways we never imagined.
If you’ve ever faced a season of uncertainty, this episode is for you. Tune in and be encouraged to surrender, trust, and walk boldly into God’s plan for your life.
Key Takeaways:
How to recognize when God is refining you through testing
The power of surrendering our plans for His purpose
Encouragement to keep moving forward in faith
Listen now and be reminded: He is making a way—even when you can’t see it yet.
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051 Are You Worth the Investment?

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:21 (NIV)
How often do you think about treating yourself—a massage, a facial, a weekend getaway, or even just dinner with a friend—only to stop yourself with the thought, "That’s a lot of money."
You might even search for a payment plan or a discount, but deep down, it was never really about the money. The real issue? Believing YOU are worth the investment.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into why so many women struggle to invest in themselves and why nurturing your inner self—your faith, dreams, and purpose—is just as important as anything you do on the outside.
 
That’s why I created the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—because YOU are worth the investment. It’s time to renew your spirit, restore your joy, and embrace the story God is writing in your life.
CLICK HERE for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit!
 Want to go deeper?CLICK HERE to Grab my book! God’s Design for Marriage: A Blueprint for Building a Christ-Centered Marriage
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Until next time, keep your eyes lifted, your hand ready to help, and your heart open to love.

050 You Were Not Meant To Do Life Alone

Have you ever found yourself saying, “I don’t need anyone. I can handle it alone”? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness or that no one would understand your struggles. But here’s the truth—God never intended for you to walk this journey alone.
In this episode, we’ll dive into why so many women feel they must carry everything by themselves, the biblical truth about community and support, and how stepping out of isolation leads to healing and transformation. You are not meant to do this alone, and you don’t have to.
Want to go deeper? Join us at the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—a sacred place where you will find encouragement, wisdom, and faith-filled connections. You are seen. You are loved. You are worth the investment.
Grab your FREE resource: "Your Story Matters"—a powerful guide to embracing your journey and stepping into the purpose God has for you!
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With joy and blessings,Dr. Deborah

049 The Power of Commitment When Love Gets Tough

"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10
In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your marriage. Whether you're waiting on commitment, preparing for it, or facing tough times in your relationship, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement.
Key Takeaways:
Debunking the myths of commitment
Understanding God's design for lasting love
Practical strategies for staying connected when love feels challenging
Call to Action: Don’t miss out on the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit, where we’ll dive deeper into God's design for love and commitment. Also, grab your copy of God's Design for Marriage: A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ" for more insights and tools to strengthen your relationship.
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Key points:
The Myths of Commitment: Why feelings aren’t enough.
God's Blueprint for Commitment: Reflecting Christ’s love in relationships.
Practical Strategies: Daily prayer, gratitude journaling, and conflict resolution tips.

048 Discovering Your Heart's Song A Journey of Renewal and Purpose

Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage?
In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy.
Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step boldly into your next season. Your story—the good, the bad, and the challenging—matters, and when you embrace it, you step into the renewal and restoration God has for you.
Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:✔️ How to let go of past hurts and disappointments that hold you back✔️ Why your story is your strength and how God uses it for His glory✔️ The three essential reasons why discovering your heart’s song is life-changing✔️ A special invitation to the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—the life-reset experience you’ve been waiting for
Special Free Gift!As we prepare for Valentine’s Day, I have a FREE DOWNLOAD just for you—“31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine.” These powerful, faith-filled promises will help you and your spouse strengthen your love, deepen your connection, and build a Christ-centered marriage.
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Register Now for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit "New Beginnings, Embracing Your Story To Discover Your Heart's Song"!This life-changing event is designed to help you embrace your whole story, find renewal, and confidently step into God’s purpose.Click here to register today!
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047 Reflecting on the Past to Embrace God's Grace Now

As we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently into God’s plan.
📖 Key Takeaways:✨ The difference between reflecting and dwelling on the past✨ Three truths about embracing God’s grace today✨ Two choices that will help you move forward✨ One practical tip to release guilt and trust in God’s plan
No matter what yesterday looked like, today is a new beginning. Join us as we learn to let go, trust God, and step into His freedom for us!
👉 Listen now and start embracing God's grace in your marriage and life today! Discover how His love can transform your story! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode, and share this with someone who needs encouragement today. Let’s build better marriages together!
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, why not download “31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine” to keep your steps steady and your heart focused? 
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Step into a life of purpose and renewal at Success to Significance: Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song. This transformative event will help you reflect on your journey, uncover your God-given purpose, and equip you to walk boldly into the future God has planned for you.
Here’s what you’ll experience:
Powerful keynotes rooted in biblical wisdom.Practical workshops to inspire personal and spiritual growth.A supportive community of faith-filled women just like you.
Don’t miss this opportunity to embrace your story and align your life with God’s design.
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Let’s step into God’s “new thing” together!