Building Better Marriages Podcast

”Building Better Marriages: the I do’s and I don’ts of everyday life” Here, we’re diving deep into the heart of relationships, addressing the many feelings, emotions, and core fears that impact the very essence of your relationship. We’re talking about stronger, Christ-centered marriages. In this safe space, we recognize that the problem is the problem, not your identity. The challenges that you are facing are real, entangling your faith with fears. But fear not, for we’ll navigate these waters with Holy Spirit discernment, allowing faith to transform fear into trust. Join us as we explore the ’I do’ and ’I don’t’ moments in everyday life, weaving Christ-centered wisdom with the Holy Spirit’s direction into the fabric of your marriage. It’s not just a conversation; it’s a journey of building better marriages now.

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4 days ago

"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10
In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your marriage. Whether you're waiting on commitment, preparing for it, or facing tough times in your relationship, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement.
Key Takeaways:
Debunking the myths of commitment
Understanding God's design for lasting love
Practical strategies for staying connected when love feels challenging
Call to Action: Don’t miss out on the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit, where we’ll dive deeper into God's design for love and commitment. Also, grab your copy of God's Design for Marriage: A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ" for more insights and tools to strengthen your relationship.
If this episode blessed you, please like, subscribe, and share the podcast with others who need encouragement in their commitment journey. Your support helps us reach more hearts and homes with God’s message of love.
Key points:
The Myths of Commitment: Why feelings aren’t enough.
God's Blueprint for Commitment: Reflecting Christ’s love in relationships.
Practical Strategies: Daily prayer, gratitude journaling, and conflict resolution tips.

Tuesday Jan 28, 2025

Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage?
In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy.
Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step boldly into your next season. Your story—the good, the bad, and the challenging—matters, and when you embrace it, you step into the renewal and restoration God has for you.
Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:✔️ How to let go of past hurts and disappointments that hold you back✔️ Why your story is your strength and how God uses it for His glory✔️ The three essential reasons why discovering your heart’s song is life-changing✔️ A special invitation to the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—the life-reset experience you’ve been waiting for
Special Free Gift!As we prepare for Valentine’s Day, I have a FREE DOWNLOAD just for you—“31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine.” These powerful, faith-filled promises will help you and your spouse strengthen your love, deepen your connection, and build a Christ-centered marriage.
Click here to get your free copy. 
Register Now for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit "New Beginnings, Embracing Your Story To Discover Your Heart's Song"!This life-changing event is designed to help you embrace your whole story, find renewal, and confidently step into God’s purpose.Click here to register today!
Let’s keep the conversation going!If this episode blessed you, please like, review, and share the podcast! Your support helps us reach more women who need encouragement and transformation.Leave a review on [Podcast Platform] & share this episode with a friend!
Let’s discover your heart’s song together. See you in the episode!

Tuesday Jan 21, 2025

As we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently into God’s plan.
📖 Key Takeaways:✨ The difference between reflecting and dwelling on the past✨ Three truths about embracing God’s grace today✨ Two choices that will help you move forward✨ One practical tip to release guilt and trust in God’s plan
No matter what yesterday looked like, today is a new beginning. Join us as we learn to let go, trust God, and step into His freedom for us!
👉 Listen now and start embracing God's grace in your marriage and life today! Discover how His love can transform your story! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode, and share this with someone who needs encouragement today. Let’s build better marriages together!
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, why not download “31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine” to keep your steps steady and your heart focused? 
Click here to get your beautifully designed download.
Join Us for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit!
Step into a life of purpose and renewal at Success to Significance: Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song. This transformative event will help you reflect on your journey, uncover your God-given purpose, and equip you to walk boldly into the future God has planned for you.
Here’s what you’ll experience:
Powerful keynotes rooted in biblical wisdom.Practical workshops to inspire personal and spiritual growth.A supportive community of faith-filled women just like you.
Don’t miss this opportunity to embrace your story and align your life with God’s design.
Click here to Register today to save your spot for this life-changing event. Virtual and in-person options are available!
Let’s step into God’s “new thing” together!
 
 
 

Tuesday Jan 14, 2025

Are you ready to start fresh and take control of your spiritual journey? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares how small, faith-filled steps can lead to meaningful change in your relationship with God and your spouse. With insights from Zechariah 4:10, you'll learn how to trust God’s timing, let go of perfectionism, and embrace progress in your everyday life.
What You’ll Discover:
Practical, faith-based habits to build a stronger relationship with God.
Encouragement to prioritize your marriage through simple daily actions.
How God rejoices in your small, intentional beginnings.
Don’t miss this episode if you’ve been searching for:
“How to grow closer to God in everyday life.”
“Faith-based personal growth.”
“Steps for a fresh start with God.”
Thank you for tuning into Building Better Marriages: The I Dos and I Don’ts of Everyday Life.
If today’s episode inspired you, don’t stop here!
Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode.
Please leave a review to let us know how this message is helping you grow in your marriage and faith.
Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.
Don’t forget to click here for a powerful resource,
"31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine,"
Register for the "2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit" here.
Let’s take those baby steps toward stronger marriages and deeper faith!

Wednesday Jan 08, 2025

In this inspiring episode, we’ll explore how to embrace the new year with a fresh perspective and renewed faith. Whether you're setting big goals or focusing on small, meaningful changes, we’ll discuss how taking baby steps can lead to lasting transformation.
Grounded in Scripture and practical tips, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s plan as you move forward, one step at a time, toward your best year yet. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about hope, grace, and creating a Christ-centered 2025!
2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit: “New Beginnings – Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song”
Are you ready to embrace your story—all of it—and step into the new beginning God has planned for you? Join us at the 2025 Women’s Summit, where we’ll dive into Isaiah 43:18-19 and discover how to let go of the past and walk boldly into your future. Space is limited for this life-changing event, so don’t wait! Register today and invite a friend to share in this journey of renewal, restoration, and rediscovery. Click here to claim your spot now!
Are you thinking about what to give your Valentine lately? Click here to get your 31 Marriage Promises!

Tuesday Dec 31, 2024

This listener favorite originally aired September 3, 2024, and we’re bringing it back because it’s just as powerful today as it was then! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or like you have nothing left to give, this episode is for you. Dr. Deborah Skomba shares timeless biblical truths and practical steps to help you trust God in your emptiest moments and find strength in His promises.
✨ Join Me at the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit! ✨This March, we’ll gather to embrace our stories and rediscover the heart song God has placed in us. Reserve your spot at the 2025 Success To Significance Women's Summit, New Beginnings - Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart's Song" and be part of this transformational experience.
🎙️ Where to Find Me:
YouTube: Talking Heart to Heart with Deborah Skomba
Amazon Music: Building Better Marriages
Instagram & Facebook: @deborahskomba @hearttoheartcoachingandcommunity
Revisit this impactful episode and let it inspire you once again. Please share it with someone who needs encouragement today!

Wednesday Dec 25, 2024

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah reflects on the transformative power of love, the central theme of the fourth week of Advent. Drawing from 1 John 4:9—“This is how God showed His love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him”—she shares how God’s love can renew and strengthen your relationships, even during life’s most challenging seasons.
Discover how to reflect Christ’s love in your marriage and family with practical tips, biblical insights, and a powerful prayer. Dr. Deborah also shares an exciting announcement about the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit: New Beginnings – Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song, and it’s not too late to purchase her devotional, The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey, to guide you closer to Jesus this season.
Don’t forget to like, share, and leave a review to help others discover this message of hope and love!
Order The Road to Bethlehem TodayLearn More About the 2025 Summit Here
with love and blessings,
Deborah

Tuesday Dec 17, 2024

This is such an exciting time!
Joy is the heartbeat of Christmas. As the angels proclaimed in Luke 2:14, the birth of Jesus brings glory to God and peace to our hearts. This joy is not dependent on how perfect our plans are or how much we accomplish—it’s rooted in the good news of our Savior’s arrival, a gift for all humanity.
This season invites us to pause and reflect on the true source of joy: God’s love for us, shown through the birth of Jesus. Amid the busyness of preparing for Christmas, let’s take time to celebrate the peace, joy and favor He offers us.
Join me as we talk about this and much more!
I have more exciting news! The 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit: New Beginnings – Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song, is happening on March 22, 2025, in-person and virtual and it is designed to inspire women to step into God’s purpose for their lives and relationships by discovering their heart's song!
If you’re ready to experience the joy of this season, grab your copy of The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey, a devotional that will guide you through hope, peace, joy, and love this Advent.
Be sure to like, share, and leave a review of the podcast to help others discover this message of hope and joy!
Order The Road to Bethlehem HereLearn More About the 2025 Summit Here

Tuesday Dec 10, 2024

Discovering Peace in Advent
Are you longing for peace amidst the chaos of the holiday season? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, the "I do's" and "I don'ts of everyday life," we discuss peace in Advent, exploring how God's promises calm our hearts and guide us to rest in His presence. From the miracle of Jesus' birth to His name, Immanuel ("God with us"), and the deep assurance of His salvation, you'll discover how to embrace true peace in your heart and home this season.
Join us as we reflect on key scriptures like John 14:27, which reminds us, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.” We’ll uncover seven powerful truths—miracle, Immanuel, salvation, treasure, love, presence, and faith—that can help you prepare your heart for Christmas and build a Christ-centered Advent experience.
Ready to go deeper? Grab your copy of my Advent devotional, "The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey," and receive an exclusive Advent Activity Calendar to bring these themes to life. Download your calendar and start your meaningful journey today!Click here for the Amazon link for the book
Click here to download the Advent Activity Calendar.
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Let’s walk this road to Bethlehem together, finding the peace your heart has longed for.

Tuesday Dec 03, 2024

In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores how the hope of Jesus’ birth can transform your marriage. Drawing from Isaiah 9:6, she unpacks what it means to invite the Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace into your relationship. Learn practical ways to lean on Christ’s promises during challenging seasons and discover how His love and sacrifice model the path to a stronger, Christ-centered marriage.
Whether you're facing struggles or seeking to deepen your connection, this episode will encourage you to anchor your marriage in the unshakable hope of a Savior. Tune in for biblical insights, practical steps, and a heartfelt prayer to guide you this Advent season!
PrayerLord, thank You for the gift of Your Son. May the hope of Isaiah 9:6 fill our hearts and our relationships this week. Guide us with Your wisdom, strengthen us with Your power, and surround us with Your peace. Amen.
"The Road To Bethlehem; An Advent Journey" Amazon link: https://a.co/d/0QHtT50

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