Building Better Marriages Podcast
”Building Better Marriages: The I do’s and I don’ts of everyday life”
Welcome to Building Better Marriages, the official podcast of Heart to Heart Ministry & Coaching — a not-for-profit (pending) Christ-centered ministry dedicated to helping couples grow closer to God and one another before and after “I Do.”
I am your host, Dr. Deborah Skomba and here, we dive deep into the heart of relationships — the emotions, fears, and patterns that shape the very essence of your marriage. Each episode brings faith-based insights, biblical marriage principles, and practical tools to help you communicate better, rebuild trust, and experience true restoration through Christ.
This is a safe, grace-filled space for couples, faith-filled believers navigating real-life struggles while longing for deeper intimacy, peace, and purpose in marriage. Together, we’ll uncover how to transform conflict into connection, fear into faith, and distance into devotion — all through the power of God’s Word and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Because the problem isn’t you — the problem is the problem. And here, we face it with truth, prayer, and biblical wisdom.
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Episodes

Nov 18, 2025
Nov 18, 2025
13 min
In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks the truth of Ephesians 4:22-24 (NLT) — “Throw off your old sinful nature… and let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.”
Marriage renewal begins in the mind. When we allow the Holy Spirit to reshape our thoughts and attitudes, everything changes—our words become softer, our reactions more patient, and our love more genuine. Dr. Deborah shares how to release old habits that hinder connection and embrace the new nature God has created within us—one filled with grace, humility, and peace.
If your marriage feels stuck in old patterns or you long for a fresh start, this message will remind you that transformation begins in the heart and is completed by the Spirit.
Click Here for a Spotify Playlist for "The Mindset Shift"
Are you ready to renew your thoughts and restore your marriage?Schedule your complimentary 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah at www.h2hmc.com and discover how Christ-centered renewal can bring peace, purpose, and lasting love to your relationship.
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe to the podcast, share it with another couple who needs hope, leave a written review, and give it a 5-star rating on your favorite podcast platform.Your support helps more couples discover the hope and healing that come from Building Better Marriages—one heart and one mindset shift at a time.

Nov 11, 2025
Nov 11, 2025
11 min
In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba delves into 1 Corinthians 2:16 (NLT): “For we have the mind of Christ.” What does it look like to think, love, and respond to your spouse with the same heart and mindset as Jesus?
You’ll discover how renewing your thoughts through the Holy Spirit changes the atmosphere of your marriage—from frustration to faith, from reaction to reflection, and from distance to connection. Dr. Deborah shares how couples can move from striving to surrender, allowing God to restore peace and purpose right where they are.
If you’ve ever longed for transformation in your marriage, this conversation will remind you that lasting change begins in the mind—and that through Christ, renewal is possible every single day.
Ready to invite God into your mindset and your marriage?Book your free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah at www.h2hmc.com. Discover how to restore communication, rebuild trust, and renew your love through Christ-centered coaching.
Click Here for a Spotify Playlist for "The Mindset Shift"
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, share it with another couple who needs hope, leave a written review, and give it a 5-star rating on your favorite podcast platform.Your support helps more couples discover the peace, purpose, and renewal that come from Building Better Marriages—one mindset shift at a time.

Nov 6, 2025
Nov 6, 2025
11 min
In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to experience The Mindset Shift: Seeing Your Marriage Through the Eyes of Christ.Drawing from Philippians 2:5–7 (NLT), she unpacks how humility, love, and servant leadership reshape the way you see your spouse and respond in moments of tension.
Learn how to move from reacting in pride or fear to responding in grace—how to view your marriage not through frustration, but through faith. When you begin to think like Christ, you start to love like Him, and that’s where true transformation begins.
Whether your relationship needs a gentle reset or a season of complete renewal, this episode will guide you toward peace, purpose, and connection rooted in God’s design.
Click Here for a Spotify Playlist I created for The Mindset Shift. Let me know if you like it.
Ready to renew your mindset and restore your marriage?Book your free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and learn how Christ-centered transformation can bring hope, healing, and harmony to your relationship.
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, share it with another couple who needs hope, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform.Your words help others discover the power of Building Better Marriages—one mindset shift at a time.

Oct 28, 2025
Oct 28, 2025
46 min
Join Dr. Deborah and guest Scott Stone, a polygrapher and man of faith, as they explore how truth, trust, and God’s grace bring healing and restoration to marriage.
Subscribe, share, and leave a 5-star review to help more couples discover faith-based tools for healing and building stronger, Christ-centered marriages.

Oct 22, 2025
Oct 22, 2025
9 min
In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba explores how the power of truth transforms relationships and restores emotional and spiritual connection in marriage.
Honesty isn’t just about words—it’s about the heart. When couples choose to walk in truth, they invite the light of Yeshua into their relationship, creating a foundation of trust and intimacy that no secret or silence can shake.
Through Scripture, biblical insight, and practical wisdom, Dr. Deborah shares how speaking truth in love opens the door to healing, freedom, and lasting connection. You’ll learn how to break down walls of misunderstanding and rebuild communication that reflects the grace and truth of Christ.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
Why truth is the heartbeat of a Christ-centered marriage
How honesty rebuilds trust and strengthens emotional bonds
Practical ways to speak the truth in love and grace
Ready to rebuild trust and connection in your marriage?Schedule your 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and learn faith-based tools to deepen intimacy and walk in God’s truth.Visit www.h2hmc.com to book your session today.
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe to the podcast, share it with a friend, and leave a 5-star review so more couples can discover the healing and freedom that come from living in God’s truth.

Oct 14, 2025
Oct 14, 2025
8 min
In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of truth and its connection to Yeshua—the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Discover how walking in the truth of Christ brings healing, freedom, and a deeper connection in marriage. Learn why truth is more than honesty—it’s a spiritual posture that invites Yeshua’s presence into your relationship. Dr. Deborah shares biblical insight, practical steps, and a heartfelt prayer to help couples speak truth in love, rebuild trust, and restore intimacy through faith.
Whether your marriage is thriving or in need of renewal, this episode will remind you that truth is where healing begins—and Yeshua is where truth lives.
Tune in now to learn how to:
Invite Yeshua’s truth into your home and heart
Speak with honesty, grace, and love
Rebuild connection through godly transparency
Ready to go deeper?Book your 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and discover how biblical truth can transform your marriage from the inside out.
If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe to the podcast, share it with a friend, and leave a 5-star review so more couples can experience the hope, healing, and freedom found in Christ-centered marriage. Thank you from my heart to yours.

Oct 7, 2025
Oct 7, 2025
35 min
In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah welcomes Pastor Lorraine Blum for a heart-stirring conversation on what it truly means to live ready for the King. Together, they explore the call for the Bride of Christ to prepare—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally—for His return.
Pastor Lorraine shares wisdom on how to build strong, Christ-centered marriages that reflect the purity, devotion, and unity God desires for His people. This episode invites listeners to examine their hearts, renew their covenant love, and align their homes with Heaven’s design.
Tune in to discover:
What it means to be the Bride of Christ in today’s world
How spiritual readiness impacts your marriage and family life
Practical ways to cultivate purity, prayer, and partnership in your home
Scripture Focus: Revelation 19:7 (NLT) – “For the time has come for the wedding feast of the Lamb, and his bride has prepared herself.”
If you’re longing to strengthen your marriage and live ready for the return of our King, this episode will inspire you to prepare your heart and home with intentional love and faith.
Listen now and be renewed in your devotion—to your spouse and to your Savior.
Pastor Lorraine Blum's contact info:
Body of Christ Ministry
3 Hills Top Court
Annandale NJ 08801
(908) 730-8831 Facebook

Sep 30, 2025
Sep 30, 2025
17 min
As we look forward to the return of our Savior, Yeshua, there’s no greater time to reflect on how we’re living, loving, and preparing for His coming. In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah discusses the importance of preparing not only spiritually but also within our marriages.
Listen as we explore:
How to stay spiritually awake and ready for the return of Christ.
The role of faith, prayer, and unity in preparing our hearts and marriages.
Practical steps couples can take to live out God’s calling in anticipation of Christ’s return.
The importance of living with purpose, commitment, and devotion to each other and to God’s kingdom.
Whether you’re preparing your heart or your marriage, this episode will encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Yeshua and live with purpose in every area of your life.
If this episode inspired you, share it with someone who needs encouragement in their spiritual journey and marriage. Don’t forget to subscribe to stay connected with us. If you found value in this podcast, please leave a 5-star rating and review. Your support helps other couples discover the message of hope and purpose in preparing for the coming of Yeshua.
If today’s episode encouraged you, I’d love for you to share it with a friend who needs hope and help in their marriage. Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode. And if this podcast has been a blessing to you, would you take a moment to leave a 5-star rating and review? Your words not only encourage me, but they also help other couples discover Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life. Together, we can spread the message of God’s design for marriage far and wide.”

Sep 23, 2025
Sep 23, 2025
9 min
Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you.
Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:
Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will.
Release the burden of past mistakes and regrets.
Realign your marriage and personal life with God’s purpose.
Walk in freedom, joy, and peace knowing you’re right where He’s called you to be.
God’s path is not about perfection — it’s about direction. No matter where you are today, you can step back into His plan and embrace the future He has waiting for you.
If today’s episode resonated with you, I’d love for you to share it with a friend or couple who needs encouragement in their marriage. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode. If this podcast has blessed you, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating and a review. Your support helps others discover Building Better Marriages – the 'I Do & 'I Don't' of Everyday Life- and experience the hope available in Christ-centered relationships.

Sep 16, 2025
Sep 16, 2025
48 min
Every marriage has a story — moments of joy, seasons of struggle, and the grace of God holding it all together. In this very special episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah is joined by her husband for an open and heartfelt conversation about their Christ-centered love story.
Together, they share:
How faith shaped their relationship from the beginning.
The challenges they’ve faced and the lessons God taught them along the way.
The role of communication, forgiveness, and prayer in keeping their marriage strong.
Encouragement for couples searching for Christian marriage help, how to rebuild trust, or how to keep love alive in every season.
This husband-and-wife conversation is filled with wisdom, laughter, and practical hope for any couple who desires to walk more closely with God and with one another.
Don’t miss this behind-the-scenes glimpse into a marriage built on God’s design — and how you can apply these same truths to your own relationship.
If this episode encourages you, please share it with another couple who needs hope. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss what’s ahead — and if this podcast has blessed you, would you take a moment to leave a 5-star rating and write a review? Your support helps more couples discover Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life.








